SANDY STONE ENTERTAINMENT
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707-327-6981
I am glad you decided to click that link in my posting that led you here. This is my personal website. My name is Sandy Stone.
Some very basic information. I am in a nice upscale hotel. I am usually available Mondays through Sundays, 7 am until 7 pm. I can meet outside those days and hours if necessary.
My system for meeting works like this: I ask that you read most or all of my website so you understand my services and donations and what I am looking for. Then we can email a few times to set a day and time to meet at my place. I will call you 60 minutes before our scheduled time to meet to give you directions to my place.
My donations are listed below. They are basically $300 for one and one half hours of body rub with happy ending or $500 for one and one half hours of body rub with escort ending. I have special treatments for Erectile Dysfunction (ED) and Premature Ejaculation (PE) issues -- described below. If you have Delayed Ejaculation (DE) or Prostate issues, ask me for details.
Please allow me to introduce myself to you. I am a beautiful 36-year old model with brunette hair, 36D breasts and great curves. I am very beautiful with a killer body. All of those things you can see with your own eyes.
What is less visible is my sparkling personality! I am engaging, witty, unpretentious, intelligent, and well rounded. I am a “normal” gal: that is to say, I am disease, drug and drama free, I have a nice career, a great social life, and I have good relations with my family. I stay closely tuned to current events and to exploring world cultures.
I am an excellent conversationalist and can hold my own with most people. I have a very modern, cosmopolitan outlook. I have traveled extensively throughout the United States. Perhaps one of my most important qualities is my love of meeting new friends! My enthusiasm is contagious and you’ll soon join me in a world of excitement and fun.
You have so many choices that it should be easy for you to find exactly what you are looking for!! I am writing this description of me to help you decide if I am the right match for you. As I look through all the ads, I am trying to think of how to describe how I fit in and what I am like and what I offer.
My website provides a comprehensive overview of my services so you will know exactly what to expect when we get together. I ask that you read my entire website before contacting me. My website also contains a description of my donations.
ABOUT ME AND MY SERVICES:
I am posting in the Body Rub / Massage Section and in the Escort Section because I am offering Body Rub Sessions with a Happy Ending and also Body Rub Sessions with an Escort Ending.
I know you are likely to be contemplating many things right now as you read this. Maybe you have never done this before or you have a wife at home that you love, but there is something lacking? I'm just not sure how people could jump right into this without some forethought. When a man "steps out" for the first time, he has feelings of guilt, shame and remorse. We are programmed from birth to feel that all sexual pleasures are wrong, and later we are programmed to feel that all pleasures shared with anyone other than our spouse are wrong. Men would feel that taking a woman other than a wife out to dinner would be a moral wrong, much more so the pleasure of being touched.
You may be a single man that just wants some companionship with no strings attached. Either way, in the real world, men cannot live without the touch of a woman, but a woman that is in a relationship after a certain age, typically couldn't care less about the touch from their man. That's the real world, not the myths that abound about how men are cold and emotionless but women are very emotionally needy.
Our society has very strange rules regarding being touched by another. We are brought up with some really messed up values, as you are learning. We only have 5 senses. We are allowed to please our sense of sight with beautiful things (but frowned upon for looking at pornography, although we all love it). We are allowed to please our sense of sound with any form of music. We are allowed to please our sense of taste with great food and drink. We are allowed to please our sense of smell with perfumes, incense, etc. But when it comes to our sense of feeling, we are prohibited outside of the bonds of a committed relationship and then eventually limited in that relationship.
So it is no surprise that when a relationship-bound woman loses her natural hormonal drives after menopause she readily announces she is done with all things sexual forever and expects her horny husband who, unlike her, is not hormone-challenged) to follow suit. If her husband was in a car accident (or caught Covid-19) and lost his senses of taste and smell and decided to live on hamburgers and french fries for the rest of his life, would it be unfair of him to expect her to give up all good foods and drinks forever and live only on hamburgers and french fries like him?
When you are ready to take the plunge, let me know. Just drop me an email and we can start this adventure. You will indulge your sense of touch without all the guilt, because we will keep this as purely entertainment. I am here to fulfill your need for touch, affection and attention, then you can go home a little less grumpy!!
I am somewhat of a perfect solution for you.
So, let’s begin to explore the possibilities of this new relationship between you and I. Email me and introduce yourself. I need some basic information to start any communications. I need your name, age, general profession and your phone number. I will never call or text your number unless at a preset time that we agree upon. I have a very light screening process, but it is a screening process just the same, so I cannot see anyone without this info. It’s strictly a safety issue.
Most quality, legitimate and reliable practitioners have some sort of screening system in place as a way of weeding out undesirable clients...it's called having standards. I have them, and I hope you do as well. You may not be getting a quality, safe service if you book time with someone who accepts anyone and everyone into their space. In fact, you may be asking for trouble. Because I value myself, my privacy, and my safety, I need to know that you are safe and with positive intentions.
The single most important part of the screening process is a cell phone number registered in your name. This cannot be a Google Voice Number or a Sideline App Number or a burner phone number. It must be a cell phone number registered in your name. If you cannot provide this information then please do not contact me.
When we first meet, let us spend 5 or 10 minutes talking and getting comfortable with each other. I know getting to know each other will take a little bit of time and may take several dates, but let’s take it slow and do this right. This is just like a first date and like you, I will have some nervous anticipation and so will you. The excitement of meeting someone new is comparable Christmas morning for a child -- the anticipation, the excitement, will you love what’s inside that package, will it be a great gift or a flop???? It’s all good fun!! It reminds you that you can still feel like a kid sometimes!!
From here, we will move right into the body rub session portion of our time together. It is an experience like no other and our time together is methodically planned out!! My body rubs take time. It is an non-rushed sensual massage session leading up to a proper Happy Ending or an Escort Ending. I provide alternatives for 1 hour, 2 hours, or 3 hours. My 2-hour and 3-hour sessions are non-rushed and considered the ultimate experience. During the body rub session, I combine three distinct body touches, one right after the other in a specially crafted session.
Our time together will of course involve affectionate companionship, but will really be about much more than that. It will also be about me giving you the attention you want, the time listening to you that you want, the appreciation that you want, and the sensuous touches that you want. I will arouse all your physical senses to new heights! When I am done, every inch of your body will have been lovingly caressed and pampered.
This session, in it's totality, is about making you feel loved and appreciated. There will be a lot of physical touching, stimulation, arousal, and pleasure peaks, to be sure, but none of these will be that memorable! If you want the big O, you can give one to yourself quite easily. What you can never give yourself is the feeling of affection and appreciation.
You want a wonderful body rub experience with a beautiful woman who will be attentive, appreciative, understanding, loving. You will never remember the Happy Ending or the Escort Ending; rather, you will remember how I made you feel as a man.
The emotional component is more important than the physical components. Gentlemen who are attracted to my ad are very intelligent – otherwise, they could not get through this many pages!! Also, gentlemen who call me are interested in a lot more than just a quick one-time fling – they are looking for friendship and companionship that will endure. The body rub girlfriend. If you are reading this right now and thinking "I don't want to read all this, where is her contact info", then I'm most likely not your gal....or rather you are not the guy I want to see. Sorry. I only want to entertain elite, intelligent gentlemen that want to slow down the pace of life (even for just a few hours) and really enjoy the pleasure of a woman's companionship and touch.
Men that come see me want that excitement that comes with romance and intrigue. We all want it. Remember how it feels to meet someone that you like, the butterflies that set residence in your stomach. It’s an amazing feeling and we struggle through life trying to recreate those wonderful relationships. We all know that a large part of the excitement is the initial conquest. We certainly all know that it is hard to keep that excitement alive in a marriage over the course of years. (And we all know that the easiest way to find it again is to start a new relationship.)
Of course, I know that you will probably have some nervousness. You are meeting someone new for the first time ever and you do not know what to expect. You do not know whether all will be as it is stated. I have the same apprehension about you! This is part of the excitement and a great start to this wonderful escape.
WHAT ARE YOU REALLY LOOKING FOR?:
Something drove you onto the internet looking for a beautiful woman to serve your pleasures. Do you know what factors really were driving you? You might think it was just a need for an orgasm, a release. But that can not be all there was. After all, you could easily give yourself an orgasm, a release. And perhaps you often do. But you decided to look for a beautiful woman to do that for you! Why? I think I know the real reasons, so I will try to set forth some of my thoughts below.
My reasoning is very complex. My reasoning is based on the answer to the basic question: why are you coming to visit a service provider? You have probably asked yourself this same question. But you are only one man. You think you know the answer in your own mind: you and your wife have lost intimacy, your wife hit menopause and gave up on romance and passion, you and your wife “grew apart”, your wife lost her great figure and great beauty and is no longer as attractive as she once was, you want sex but your wife doesn’t, your wife doesn’t understand you, your wife has become a bitch, your wife won’t rub your back and tease you seductively the way your body needs in order to overcome ED issues, etc., etc., etc.!!
And so, based on your own particular interpretation of your “issue”, you think that you need the tender, loving touch of a beautiful woman (a body rub) or you think you need the full experience, the complete home run (the escort services). No doubt you have thought about this for a long, long, long time. This was not something that entered your mind for the first time today. It has been in the back of your mind for a long time, and it has been in the front of your mind for a while too. Perhaps you have even discussed this issue with a buddy or two. Perhaps they are in the same situation. Perhaps they told you about internet sites like EROS and SLIXA and TRYST and so on.
How many opinions have you heard on this issue? Your own, to be sure. Perhaps the opinion of a buddy or two. Maybe even a therapist. Maybe a book or an article, perhaps several. I do not want to say that I am the world’s foremost authority on this issue, but I do want to say that during the last few years I have heard literally hundreds of opinions on this issue. And I want to say that just about all the reasons I have heard, and this will probably include yours, are completely wrong.
You are not coming to see me because you need a physical release. You can do that yourself, and you probably do and probably often. You are not coming because you need sex. You could get that from your wife for a little asking, or if needed you could get that for a very, very low donation ($60!) from many providers, over and done in just 10 minutes.
What you want is something more than mere touching or quick sex. You want the loving adoration of a beautiful woman with an incredible body and a brilliant mind! You want a woman who will listen to you when you talk about the successes you have had in life; you want a woman who will listen to you when you talk about your day. You want a woman who will understand you. You want a woman who is mysterious, unknown, new. You want a new conquest.
Have you ever been around an old soldier and his wife when someone new enters the room? The old soldier begins to tell his story about landing on Normandy Beach during D-Day. His wife rolls her eyes and says, “Not that story again for the millionth time!” and leaves the room. The visitor listens enthralled. The visitor has never heard that story from anyone who landed on that Beach and listens with rapt attention. I’m willing to bet that your wife is a bit like that – she does not want to hear your stories, she does not want to hear about your day! And if I’m right, you probably don’t want to hear about hers either. That old soldier is not looking for a breast or a vagina: he is looking for an ear!!!! A loving, supportive, interested ear.
Do you remember your first conquest? It was thrilling and exciting, wasn’t it? The hunt, the chase are great fun. But after 10, 20, 30, 40 years, the thrill is gone. The honeymoon is long over. You miss it. You would love to have it back. But you know your limits. You know your consequences. You know that you would completely alter your life, basically ruin your life, by having an affair. So you have ruled out that route. You have decided upon a less risky course of action. You want to get what you want, what you are missing, but you do not want to give up everything you have to get it!
I have often heard, “I have a wonderful wife. We still love each other very much. I don’t want to get divorced, I don’t want to hurt her”, etc. I have even heard, “This was my wife’s idea. She wants me to visit girls and have my fun but just leave her alone.”
So you turned to the internet, thinking that having a beautiful woman give you a body rub with a nice release at the end would satisfy your needs, only to be terribly disappointed. Perhaps you visited a woman who offered escort services, thinking that would replace your wife as she existed in the early years of your marriage. But you were out the door in ten minutes and felt cheated, despite having your way with her. You even felt demeaned, belittled.
You have probably felt cheated every time you visited a woman. You felt cheated because you did not get what you wanted! Here is the surprise: you did not get what you really wanted because you did not know what you really wanted. Since you did not know what you really wanted, you did not ask for it. You did not know how to get what you really wanted. You could not verbalize it to yourself, let alone to a woman you had never met before.
You thought you really wanted the touch of a beautiful woman or you thought you wanted sex with a beautiful woman. YOU WERE WRONG. You wanted much more than either of those two things. I’ll say what you really want: “You want the loving adoration of a beautiful woman with an incredible body and a brilliant mind!”
Let’s consider some of the bad experiences I have heard about, the horror stories of internet visits. Perhaps you have some you’d like to share. Many clients have told me about visiting absolutely gorgeous body rub providers but they left unhappy because the providers were emotionally cold, they gave “mechanical” body rubs. Their hands touched in all the right ways and all the right places, but they were like having a robot give a body rub – no human emotion, no human intimacy. Other clients have told me about visiting absolutely gorgeous escort providers but they left unhappy because the providers were emotionally cold, they did not enjoy themselves; they only wanted the man to have an orgasm as quickly as possible and kick him out the door moments later (no afterglow, no winding down). In some cases, the provider was stiff as a board and looked up at the ceiling and said, “Tell me when you’re done.” If you do not have a horror story to tell, you are a lucky man!
What is the common denominator of bad sessions: the woman lacked emotion. She lacked love. She was a robot. She just wanted the session to be over as quickly as possible. She had no interest whatsoever in you as a man; she only wanted your wallet. She did not want to hear your stories, about your successes, your life, your day. And she did not want to tell you anything about herself. She was with you for a very limited time for a very limited purpose. Give you an orgasm, collect a donation, and kick you out the door. You left with a big hole in your heart. You felt cheated, not because you were not touched, not because you did not have your way, but because you did not feel loved. When you left, you did not feel good about yourself. The visit was not an emotionally uplifting experience.
If you do not understand your real motivations in turning to the internet to look for a service provider, then it is unlikely you will ever be satisfied! You will not get what you really want because you do not know what you really want, and therefore do not seek what you really want and do not ask for what you really want.
Mere physical touching and physical pleasures are not what is really the most satisfying to a man. It takes a lot more. It takes an emotional connection. You don’t want a cold, emotionless “session” with someone who is “doing a job”! You want someone who is emotionally invested in you – someone who wants to share things about your life and what you do, your triumphs and successes. You want a lady who will listen to you! And you want to learn about her in return.
If you feel as I feel about this issue, then we will be a good match. If you only want a touch, devoid of emotion, then we will not be a good match. If you only want a quick release, devoid of emotion, then we will not be a good match.
But if you want to be touched by loving hands and to touch me in return with loving hands, if you want to be satisfied in those loving ways with a passionate, loving woman, then we will be a great match indeed. I am looking for an emotionally satisfying experience that will develop a lasting bond between us. I am not looking for a slam-dam-thank-you ma’am, meaningless one-time experience. I want to be your permanent temporary girlfriend!
I would like to say that I believe in getting together for extended periods of time. Let’s be real – this will not be the first time you have ever conquered a lady, nor the first time I have been conquered! But I want this to be just as memorable for you and for me as that first time! Remember the song that has the lyric “It feels like the first time”? The writer of that song hit the nail on the head – there is never a time that we are more likely to remember than that first time.
Can you remember the times when getting together with a woman lasted 2 to 3 hours? Do you remember the anticipation, the slow gentle exploration of each other’s body, the spine-tingling excitement? Isn’t the teasing foreplay 99% of the fun? Yes, I know that most service providers -- body rub girls and escort girls -- want you to be gone within minutes of the time you arrive. Many gentlemen have explained those types of sessions to me. I almost feel as though I could write a book on them because I have heard them described to me so many times. And there is definitely a time and a place for them!! But that is not what I offer here. What I offer is one thing and one thing only – a recreation of the “FIRST TIME”!
I want all the gentle exploration. I want all the anticipation, all the excitement, all the passion, all the sensuous pleasure that long sessions provide. If you are in a rush because you need to get to the airport or get home or get back to the office, then I will not be the right gal for you!
It is pretty likely that you have spent time with more than one woman during the course of your life. Can you remember what made for the best episodes ever? What happened? What did you love the most? If you could waive a magic wand and make for a great, great episode, what elements would you want? What would happen? If you can just ask yourself those questions, let alone answer them, then I am probably a GREAT match for you!
The world’s greatest body rub experience, whether it ends with a Happy Ending or with an Escort Ending, is not just about sex – it is about making you feel great about yourself! It is about making you feel loved and appreciated. There will be a lot of physical touching, stimulation, arousal, and an orgasm, to be sure, but none of these are memorable! If you want an orgasm, you can give one to yourself quite easily. In fact, most men give themselves one every day. What you can never give yourself is the feeling of love and appreciation.
You want a wonderful body rub experience with a beautiful woman who will be attentive, appreciative, understanding, loving. You will never remember the Happy Ending – the orgasm; rather, you will remember how I made you feel as a man.
The emotional component is ten times more important than the physical components. John Gray in his book “Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus” points out that the number one thing a man wants from a relationship with a woman is to be treated as competent. A wife should say things like, “Honey, you did a brilliant job mowing the grass; you did a fantastic job fixing the washing machine; you were so smart fixing that leak.” A man wants that more than he wants great sex!! You are probably the same!
I am not just in the body rub and escort business. I am also in the emotional support business. I am a therapist, a counselor, a psychologist, a psychiatrist; I am with you to listen and to be emotionally supportive.
Our time together will of course involve intimacy, but will really be about much more than that. It will also be about me giving you the attention you want, the time listening to you that you want, the appreciation that you want, and the sensuous touches that you want. I want to make you feel like a million dollars on multiple levels – as a romantic interest, as a friend, and finally as a sex object! Perhaps you will want to reciprocate!
Gentlemen who read my ad are obviously very intelligent – otherwise, they could not get through this many pages!! Also, gentlemen who call me are interested in a lot more than just a quick one-time fling – they are looking for friendship and companionship that will endure.
I would like to share some of my thoughts with you. I thought that this would be about one thing and one thing only. After all, I have heard throughout my life that men have only one thing on their minds every minute of every day and night – sex. I have read articles that claim that a man thinks about sex every 10 seconds!!! Of course men do not really think about sex that often. Men think about sex about 10 times a day (compared to 5 times a day for women). I thought this would be a situation where I would open the door and a gentleman would want immediate sexual gratification. Now I know the reality.
The reality is more like this. You are reading this ad because you feel an innate need for female companionship. There is something missing in your life. You may be married, but that special romantic passion is not present any more. Your body is pushing you to find a woman with whom to share that special romantic passion once again. It is a basic male need – as basic as the need for air, water, food, shelter, and clothing. It is present in you every minute of every day. It drives you.
Everything a man does is done to impress a woman so she will be romantically attracted to him. In today’s world, men get an education so they can get great jobs so they can impress the women and get rewarded with the special romantic passion and sex they want. In short, since the beginning of time the main drive in men has been one thing -- sex.
Men don’t need to think about that one thing. It is hormonal. It drives every man every minute of every day. Ultimately, it does involve a male explosion. But I think that a lot more is involved than just that. After all, a man can create his own explosions easily and quickly (and most men do and do often!). There is something more, something “extra”. And that “extra” is the whole point. That “extra” is what drives men to turn to Back Page. It is that “extra” that is everything.
That “extra” has been described in many books over the years. I will try to describe it from my point of view from what I have learned.
First, not that you are shallow, but you want a woman who is beautiful in the face, with beautiful large breasts, soft skin, a nice butt and long legs (and other nice equipment). That is natural. We all prefer the attractive to the unattractive, so don’t feel that it is inappropriate to prefer an attractive woman.
Second, you want a woman who appreciates you for who you are. You want to be appreciated for your accomplishments in life. You want to be with a woman who makes you feel special. You want a woman who thinks you are wonderful for who you are and what you have done. This too is natural to men. Women don’t usually feel a need to be appreciated in quite the same way. Men feel a basic need to be treated as being competent in what they do. A man feels very vulnerable when his woman fails to appreciate his competence. You want 100% acceptance and unconditional love.
Third, you want a woman who will pay 100% attention to you when you are together – no interruptions from cell phones, etc. This will become a private universe where no one else exists – just you and me, alone, together.
Fourth, you want your physical needs to be met. You want your muscles massaged. You want your back scratched (and what you don’t know yet is this: you want your entire body scratched!) You want your skin to be soothed with soft, gentle, loving touches. You want your hands held; you want your face to be lovingly caressed. And like every human being – man and woman – you want to have an explosion. The drive toward that explosion is one of the absolutely most basic drives in all of us. It is why you turned to Back Page.
Fifth, you want a woman with whom you are comfortable. You want a woman with whom you can talk. You want a woman with whom you share a common history, a common background, a common basis of experiences. You want a woman that speaks your language, went to the same kinds of schools as you did, had the same kinds of friends as you had. You want a woman who looks a bit like you and who thinks a bit like you. You want a woman who reacts to the news of the day the same way that you respond. You want a mature woman more or less in your own age range! Someone who understands the ups and down of getting older!
Sixth, you want that magical spark of romance and intrigue. We all want it. We all remember forever our first love. We would all like to be able to recreate that once-in-a-lifetime feeling we had then. We all know that a large part of the excitement is the initial conquest. We certainly all know that it is hard to keep that excitement alive in a marriage over the course of years. (And we all know that the easiest way to find it again is to start a new relationship.)
No man can ever give himself an orgasm as good as a woman gives him because all those “extra” things are missing. No human being can ever tickle himself / herself. It just simply cannot be done by anyone, ever. In contrast, every human being can create an explosion for himself/herself. But not as good as one created by a beautiful woman!!
When you visit me, we should each be filled with an expectant attitude that today is going to be one of the best days ever! If you are romantic, perhaps you will have some flowers or a box of chocolates! When the door opens and we see each other for the first time, let it be magical.
Of course, I know that you will probably have some nervousness. You are meeting someone new for the first time ever and you do not know what to expect. You do not know whether all will be as it is stated. I have the same apprehension about you!
Let’s start off the same way any dating couple would start off – by sitting on the sofa, conversing for a while. Let’s get to know each other a little. As we become acquainted, perhaps we will begin to explore a little. Let the fun begin!”
START WITH MY BODY RUB SESSION:
When you come to see me, we will start with my special body rub session. I have been professionally trained for this. No matter which type of ending you prefer -- Happy Ending or Escort Ending -- we will always start with my special body rub session. A more complete description is included below, but for now I will provide a brief description.
I know that the body rub portion of our session must be the highest quality service available. In the 1950’s, the words “Made in Japan” meant that it was cheaply made junk that would break after the first use. But an American named William Edwards Deming told the Japanese to change their paradigm, to make only the highest quality products that could be made. As a result, the words “Made in Japan” today mean the highest quality products that can be found! I have the same attitude!!
This is a specially crafted three touch body rub session. During this session I will incorporate three teases: a strip tease (I will remove all my clothing one article at a time, slowly during the course of our time together), a nipple tease (once released and free, my nipples will “accidentally” brush against your body from time to time unexpectedly and in random locations), and a genital tease (various parts of my body will “accidentally” brush against your genitals from time to time unexpectedly).
1. MASSAGE TIME !!!
First I start by imitating the techniques of a Certified Massage Therapist-- kneading, rolling, etc. Please note, I provide body rubs, not massages. There is a similar base, however there is a whole new, exciting twist that the ordinary CMT cannot provide.Tell me which areas need the most attention.
2. SCRATCHING TIME !!!
After that portion of the body rub, let's move on to the next touching method. Scratching. This portion is designed to stimulate the middle layer of skin. That is much easier to do than it might sound! And in fact you have done it to yourself every day of your life, and your girlfriend / significant other has probably done that for you a few times. It is as simple as a scratch. But try to convince your girlfriend / significant other to scratch your body all over -- 100% -- and you'll find it an unlikely scenario. But that is exactly what I do. In this 2nd type of body rub, I will do a gentle scratching technique over the whole body. Included in this will be scratching every part of your face, except your eyelids !! This is a light, gentle scratching - no marks!! Face and Body Scratches are one of life’s greatest pleasures, even your ears will receive my tender loving attention !!
3. FINGERTIP TOUCHING TIME !!!
This part is designed to stimulate the outer layer of skin. It is unlikely you have ever felt the extreme pleasure that this type of stimulation provides. For this type of body rub, my very, very soft fingertips ever so gently glide across the outer layer of your skin. I use a touch that is lighter than a feather. In fact, this is called a feather touch. It feels as gentle as the sensation of a single feather gently moving across your skin. It feels heavenly.
But, better than that is the tremendous build-up that you will feel as I approach the last area of your body with this feathery touching. I go in the same order for all three types of body rubs, and that means that the back and butt are last. I will tease your butt and the insides of your upper legs with feathery touches that are extremely pleasurable!
The Fingertip Session – is designed to soothe and calm the outer layer of the skin – ALL the skin of the body. During this Session, I will use just my soft fingertips using very, very light touches. For many parts of your body, this will feel like tickling! For those areas, we will either apply more pressure to eliminate that tickling sensation or we will skip over those areas!
You came to me for a body rub, a physical touching, and a release. Yet in reality a mere physical touching is not quite enough if it is not done in a caring, loving manner. A robot can touch you, but you will never feel emotionally satisfied. Only a human can touch you in a caring, loving manner that satisfies you emotionally. A 20-something year old gal can touch you, but usually can not satisfy you emotionally because she is not interested in you!
Now the Third Session, the Fingertip Session, comes to a close. It is time to begin the Final Session of our time together – the Erotic Session.
EXPLANATION OF TIMING:
I tend to be a precise person. I like to do exactly as I say I am going to do so there is no misunderstanding and no hurt feelings. So I describe below exactly what we will be doing during our time together. We can make minor alterations to suit your particular likes and dislikes. For example, if you do not like your hands to be touched, we can reassign that time (10 minutes) to an area where you do like to be touched (like your legs or feet; not your private areas!).
1-hour sessions: For a one-hour session, we will spend our time together as follows:
1. Five minutes (5 minutes) talking and getting to know each other.
2. Twenty minutes (15 minutes) going through Session 1 -- described in detail below.
3. Fifteen minutes (15 minutes) going through Session 2 -- described in detail below.
4. Fifteen minutes (15 minutes) going through Session 3 -- described in detail below.
5. Ten minutes (15 minutes) for a Happy Ending or an Escort Ending -- described in detail below.
2-hour sessions: For a two-hour session, we will spend our time together as follows:
1. Five minutes (5 minutes) talking and getting to know each other.
2. Sixty minutes (60 minutes) going through Session 1 -- described in detail below.
3. Twenty minutes (20 minutes) going through Session 2 -- described in detail below.
4. Twenty minutes (20 minutes) going through Session 3 -- described in detail below.
5. Twenty minutes (20 minutes) for a Happy Ending or an Escort Ending -- described in detail below.
3-hour sessions: For a three-hour session, we will spend our time together as follows:
1. Five minutes (5 minutes) talking and getting to know each other.
2. Eighty minutes (80 minutes) going through Session 1 -- described in detail below.
3. Forty minutes (40 minutes) going through Session 2 -- described in detail below.
4. Forty minutes (40 minutes) going through Session 3 -- described in detail below.
5. Twenty minutes (20 minutes) for a Happy Ending or an Escort Ending -- described in detail below.
4-hour sessions: For a four-hour session, we will spend our time together as follows:
1. Five minutes (5 minutes) talking and getting to know each other.
2. Eighty minutes (80 minutes) going through Session 1 -- described in detail below.
3. Forty minutes (70 minutes) going through Session 2 -- described in detail below.
4. Forty minutes (70 minutes) going through Session 3 -- described in detail below.
5. Twenty minutes (20 minutes) for a Happy Ending or an Escort Ending -- described in detail below.
DONATIONS AND DISCLAIMER:
I ask for donations for my time. I do not ask for donations for any specific services. I provide body rubs – not massages. I ask for a donation based solely as a voluntary donation made in exchange for time, not for specific services.
COMPANIONSHIP SESSION: Body Rub With Happy Ending (American Traditional or Japanese Geisha or a Combination):
$300 for 1.5 hours (Session 1: 25 minutes; Session 2: 25 minutes;
Session 3: 25 minutes; Happy Ending: 15 minutes)
$400 for 2.0 hours (Session 1: 35 minutes; Session 2: 35 minutes;
Session 3: 35 minutes; Happy Ending: 15 minutes)
$500 for 3.0 hours (Session 1: 80 minutes; Session 2: 40 minutes;
Session 3: 40 minutes; Happy Ending: 20 minutes)
V.I.P. SESSION: Body Rub With Escort Ending (Let's Discuss By Phone):
$500 for 1.5 hours (Session 1: 25 minutes; Session 2: 25 minutes;
Session 3: 25 minutes; Escort Ending: 15 minutes)
$600 for two hours (Session 1: 60 minutes; Session 2: 20 minutes;
Session 3: 20 minutes; Escort Ending: 20 minutes)
$800 for three hours (Session 1: 80 minutes; Session 2: 40 minutes;
Session 3: 40 minutes; Escort Ending: 20 minutes)
E.D. and P.E. TREATMENTS:
Please add an additional $100 donation for Erectile Dysfunction (E.D.) and Premature Ejaculation (P.E.) issues. Full descriptions are provided below.
AVAILABILITY:
I will be generally be available from about 7 am until about 7 pm Mondays through Sundays. I will be hosting at a nice hotel in an upscale area.
I can not travel out to visit you at your place, sorry (i.e., no outcalls).
THE EROTIC SESSION:
Now the body rub portion of our time together has come to an end and it is time for the erotic session. You have choice: a Happy Ending or an Escort Ending. Let me describe these:
HAPPY ENDING:
Every woman will provide a body rub to at least one man during the course of her lifetime that includes a traditional Happy Ending using her hands. Gals on EROS and SLIXA and other internet sites become "experts" at that type of Happy Ending. And in fact you have probably given yourself many Happy Endings!
Most gals follow one of two "techniques": 1. they ask the gentleman how he masturbates himself and they try to imitate his "technique", or: 2. they just use some sort of up and down "rub and tug" "technique". I emphasize the word "technique" because in reality most gals do not really follow any systematic process that could really be called a "technique".
I prefer to follow the "GEISHA GIRL" technique of providing a prolonged, erotic Happy Ending. The chances are pretty good you have never visited a real Geisha Girl in Japan and thus you probably have no idea of what I am talking about. I would love to provide a ten-page description of a proper Geisha Girl Happy Ending, but EROS and SLIXA and other sites censor such descriptions very, very heavily so I cannot do so on those sites. That is why I have created this Webpage. (In fact, I can not even use the words “Happy Ending”, “Head”, “Hands”, and many other simple words on those sites because those words are censored!)
And I won't go into long detail over the phone to describe a Geisha Girl Happy Ending -- too many guys are simply trying to masturbate themselves while I give the description over the phone. So I will try to describe a Geisha Girl Happy Ending to you.
I offer two different kinds of Happy Endings: Traditional or Geisha.
For a Traditional American Happy Ending, I use my hands in exactly the same way that you use your hands when you provide your own Happy Ending to your own masturbation sessions. In order to do this, I will need to ask you how you do this part when you are by yourself! If you use your right hand when you pleasure yourself, then I’ll use my right hand standing at your right side so that my hand is in the same position your hand would be in. If you use up and down motions with pressure on the downward motion, I will do the same. If you add a twisting motion, so will I. Perhaps you can show me a stroke or two! I will try to do as you would do unto yourself!
For a Geisha Japanese Happy Ending, I use my hands in exactly the same way that the Geisha Girls of Japan use their hands when they provide Happy Endings to gentlemen. It is extremely unlikely that you know what this is – unless you have been to Japan!! This Geisha type of Happy Ending is radically different than a Traditional Happy Ending usually given in the United States.
A Geisha Girl spends a considerable amount of time and effort diligently applying different techniques of an exquisitely erotic and sensual nature to the most private part of your body in an intelligent, thoughtful manner. A Geisha Girl keeps 2 hands on the gentleman’s genitals at all times, with both hands doing different things.
Usually, one hand strokes the shaft of the penis in upward/downward motions, sometimes with a gentle twisting motion, and using various degrees of pressure. This hand may extend down and caress the testicles from time to time, as desired, but never extends upward enough to touch the head of the penis.
The other hand focuses solely on the head of the penis at all times. This hand explores the head of the penis much like your hand explores a clitoris and /or vagina – which is to say, with extreme interest! Sometimes the fingertips form a circle around the crest of the head, sometimes just one fingertip circles the crest. Sometimes the fingertips go up and down like an octopus. Sometimes the entire hand closes, using various degrees of pressure from time to time.
Then the unexpected element of playfulness enters in. You have probably played with a woman’s clitoris during the course of your lifetime. You have probably rubbed your fingers up and down, side to side. You have twisted it, pulled it, tugged it, and even strummed your fingers across it. You absolutely loved playing with that clitoris. Don’t you wish you had a woman who would absolutely love playing with your penis as much as you love playing with a clitoris?
As the moment for the ultimate explosion nears, the hand stroking the shaft of the penis increases pressure and intensity and speed, while the hand attending the head of the penis forms itself into the shape of a vaginal opening. Your penis will think it is pumping in and out of a vagina!
When you give yourself a Happy Ending, you probably follow the same exact routine each and every time, with no experimenting. You probably use the same hand in the same location using the same kind of stroke and the same amount of pressure. And when you visit a gal for a Happy Ending, she probably follows her own way of providing a Happy Ending – or perhaps asks you how you do it.
But it would be an extremely rare event for a woman to really, really focus her love and attention on your penis the way that you have loved and attended a clitoris!! And no matter how much you might want to lavish your own love and attentions on your own penis, you can not do so. It would never feel good! You can not tickle yourself. No one can. You can only be tickled by someone else. The same is true of what I am trying to describe! Only another person can give your penis the kind of love and attention I am describing!
And as good as that description may sound, I know this: you’ll have a lot of personal favorite things! So tell them to me. I want you to have the best Happy Ending you can possibly have!
I do not have a video that shows me providing a Happy Ending. But I have found a video that I like, so I'll give you the cite so you may watch for yourself:”
http://xhamster.com/movies/1309574/the_best_cock_massage.html?s=6
That video has been deleted by the poster. Here are some others I like:
https://www.xvideos.com/video24972865/lingam_tantra_massage
https://www.xvideos.com/video11467229/hot_handjob_lingam_massage
https://www.xvideos.com/video2513766/kinkyfoxy_handjob_massage
https://www.xvideos.com/video14346895/french_beauty_giving_amazing_handjob_findherhere.tk
A lot of clients have asked me if the gal in the video is me. When I say it is not me, they ask for a description of the differences between her session and mine. This is how I respond:
No, that is not me in the video. That is an actress! Our sessions are similar, but different.
Differences:
First, I deliver a professional massage for 60 minutes. I am trained. Second, I scratch the entire body for about 10 minutes. Third, I gently touch the entire body with gentle fingertip touches for about 10 minutes. I use three teases: strip tease, nipple tease, genital tease. I use two nondiscernible techniques: continuity, predictability. The gal in the video does not do those things. She does not do a strip tease -- she keeps her clothes on, I take mine off. She does not do a nipple tease. She does not do a genital tease -- she just grabs it with no teasing. She takes hands on and off and on and off -- I keep at least one hand on at all times. Where her hands will land after she takes them off is unpredictable!!! With me, you'll exactly what is coming next without me explaining!!
Similarities:
I include her video as an example of how a Happy Ending may involve traditional styles and / or geisha styles. She blends the two styles in alternating formats. I love the way she does that. [I do not like her lack of the teases, her lack of continuity, her lack of predictability, her general body rub technique.]
Another difference:
The gal in the video has a young man who is full of pep and energy. He is on his hands and knees the whole time, and he has a penis long enough to allow the gal to give it plenty of attention. In the real world, not many men have a penis that long, nor are most men comfortable in that position for that long of a period of time. I find that men are more comfortable lying on their backs with their penis staring straight up at the ceiling -- or me!
The Main Point:
The main point is that the gal in the video delivers a supremely wonderful Happy Ending. [Granted, the man in the video seems completely unaware of her presence – at least there is a successful ending.] The main point is that Happy Endings can be better than Great Sex if done in a creative, intelligent, artistic, thoughtful way!!
THE THREE TEASES:
I use three teases during the course of my time with you. These three teases are placed throughout the three sessions, popping up often here and there in random, unpredictable manners. These three teases are less noticeable, more subtle.
TEASE 1: STRIP TEASE:
I try to recreate the great episodes. I know one thing for sure – the great ones need time!! Carly Simon sings “Anticipation” like a woman who knows what she is talking about!! She knows that the great episodes are those where the participants build up the anticipation over time. That is the first thing I do!
The first tease is a nonchalant strip tease. When I first enter, I’ll be dressed like a professional strip tease dancer – that is to say, I will have a lot of layers hiding my entire body! Over the course of time, I will remove these layers one by one until only my birthday suit remains!!
Usually, I’ll be dressed in three layers: a bra/panty outfit, a lingerie outfit over that, and a robe covering everything! You’ll be trying to see what lies under my outfit!! You’ll be anxious to see more. Alfred Hitchcock knew that a man’s mind is more active when his mind must imagine what lies beneath!
The total revelation is not needed. The mind is more excited by what it imagines than by what the eyes see. He was a master of suspense. I try to be! Yes, of course eventually your eyes will see absolutely everything without the obstruction of clothes. But that is eventually, not right now.
If every woman walked around completely naked, guys would get bored. The magic, the mystery would disappear. If I appeared at the door completely naked, the reality would not be as tantalizing as the suggestion. Have you ever been to a strip tease show? The beautiful woman does not first appear completely naked. Instead, she appears completely dressed. Then she proceeds to slowly remove articles of clothing over time! I like to do the same!! It has worked for thousands of years, so why try to change the system now!
Yes, eventually I will indeed have no clothes on whatsoever – just like you!!
TEASE 2: NIPPLE TEASE:
At some point, I will be topless! Now a woman’s greatest weapon is present: nipples. I use these to erotically tease you by “accidentally” letting them gently touch various parts of your body as I lean over him, from time to time, in random places.
TEASE 3: GENITAL TEASE:
At some point, many points actually, I will be in close proximity to your genitals! As I reach across your various body parts, I allow parts of my body (my hands, my elbows, my nipples) to “accidentally” graze across your genitals. I will let your penis become somewhat aroused from time to time, without direct attention! This is teasing! I may tease on a scale of 1 to 10, from a little to pure torture. I might ask him how much you like to be teased on that scale – or I just might assume you want to be teased to the point of pure torture!
HOW GOOD IS MY SESSION?
I have done many body rubs for athletes, construction workers, and physically active people with extremely sore muscles, as well as to many professional and executive types who have no sore muscles. I give light tissue body rubs, with a scratching session and a gentle fingertip session. This is radically different than the types of deep tissue massages that professional, licensed massage therapists provide.
But my session is actually better than the greatest deep tissue massage could ever hope to be!! Let me explain why.
Deep tissue massage uses force to relax the muscles. The body’s natural inclination is to resist force, so more force must be used. But I use the body as an ally to relax the muscles and to heal itself.
The human body has a nearly endless potential to relax its muscles and to heal itself. Sometimes a human body can even beat cancer without medical treatment. Just give the human body enough time and it will heal many illnesses by itself. That is why sleep is so very important. The human body relaxes its muscles and does most of its repairs during sleep. Researchers now say that if you want to lose weight you should sleep more!
Sleep is a great natural healer. Sleep does everything for the human body. Sleep enough and every muscles is perfectly relaxed and great healing takes place. Why is sleep so effective? Because during sleep the human body can relax fully and concentrate on healing itself! When we wake up, our muscles our 100% relaxed and we are fresh and ready to roll.
If a football player develops extremely sore muscles during the course of a long game, the best way to relax those muscles would likely be to sleep for eight hours. But sleeping for eight hours is not always practical, so football players need a faster solution. And that solution traditionally has been a deep tissue massage. A deep tissue massage forces the human body’s muscles to relax during the course of just one hour instead of eight hours. Basically, you are cramming eight hours into one hour. A deep tissue massage uses force, and the body resists force.
My session is designed to allow the human body the time to relax so it can heal itself. And I do that over a period of either 2 hours or 3 hours. It has come as a shock to me to learn that the human body will more fully relax the muscles over a 2 to 3 hour period with my light tissue massage followed by my scratching session ending with my feather-light, gentle fingertip touching than it will with a 1 hour deep tissue massage. My session does not cram down the sore muscles; rather, it allows the body to gently do naturally what it does best: relax the muscles slowly and evenly over the course of time.
In short, my three-part session more effectively relaxes sore muscles than a one-hour deep tissue massage. My session uses the body as an ally over two to three hours instead of trying to cram down sore muscles in an unrealistic period of one hour. And even better than that, my session satisfies one of the human body’s most primary needs: the need to be touched by another human being!
Being scratched over 100% of the body for a long time is great. Being gently touched over 100% of the body for a long time is truly heavenly. We all need to be touched. From the earliest age on, we all need to be touched. It is a need as basic as our needs for air, water, food, shelter, and clothing.
I could write many pages about the need to be touched. I’ll simplify into a few basic thoughts. When human babies are given food, water, air, clean clothes, good shelter, but not touched they develop life-long mental illnesses that alienate them from human society. This was first noticed in the Romanian Orphanage cases. A simple “Google” search for “Romanian Orphans” pulls up many articles on the subject. Here is one: https://www.washingtonpost.com/local/romanian-orphans-subjected-to-deprivation-must-now-deal-with-disfunction/2014/01/30/a9dbea6c-5d13-11e3-be07-006c776266ed_story.html. Here are four of the paragraphs from this article which illustrate the importance of being touched:
“Cognitive ability and psychological well-being correlate directly with the amount of attention and nurturing children receive when they are young, according to recent research that includes studies of Romanian institutions.
“Everything from brain size to intellectual prowess to the ability to form emotional bonds to staying focused on a job is improved when children receive attention, are held and read to, experts say.
“Romania’s communist-era orphans got next to none of this. As a result, they suffered from attention deficit hyperactivity disorder, post-traumatic stress disorder, psychiatric illnesses and bipolar disorder, Aronson said.
“They also had the most severe reactive attachment disorder she has seen anywhere. ‘It is a pathologic and psychiatric diagnosis where an individual person, a child in this case, would be unable to have affectional connection to an adult, to a parent, incapable of exchange of love.’’
A lot of research has been done on the topic of “severe reactive attachment disorder”. But the research focuses on the need for touching by babies. The research neglects the need for touching by adults. But we all know how much we love to be touched gently and lovingly; what we do not fully understand is the literal need to be touched.
But the human body itself knows what it needs. When our body needs water, it tells us that we are thirsty and so we get something to drink. When our body needs sustenance, it tells us we are hungry and so we eat. Our body tells us when we are too cold, too hot, or too much of anything. In fact, scientists believe our body can even direct us to specific nutrients that it needs. The word is “moreishness”. This is a food craving – when our body needs sodium, it tells us to eat salty food. When our body needs chromium, it tells us to eat sugary foods. When our body needs iron or zinc, it tells us to eat meat. Here is a good article on the subject: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-2923675/What-food-cravings-say-chocolate-sweets-meat-stodgy-carbs-provide-crucial-clues-health.html. Here are some paragraphs from that article:
“What do your food cravings say about you? From chocolate to sweets, meat to stodgy carbs, they can provide crucial clues about your health
"Cravings are the body's way of telling us it is missing out on something
"While you might crave something sweet, your body is really lacking the mineral chromium which can be found in beef, kidney, carrots and broccoli
"An undeniable urge for a bar of chocolate is your body's way of saying it needs more magnesium - also found in tuna, mackerel and wild salmon"
And when your body needs to be touched, it tells you to come visit me!!! Your body knows when it has a touch deficiency just as surely as it knows when it has a chromium or magnesium deficiency!! And my three-part session is just the solution to your touch deficiency.
How good is my session? It is great, great, great! It relaxes the muscles of your body more effectively than traditional deep tissue massage and it satisfies your body’s need for human touch!
NOT A PERFECT WORLD -- E.D. HAPPENS, P.E. HAPPENS, PROSTATE ISSUES HAPPEN:
IF YOU HAVE ED OR PE OR PROSTATE ISSUES, THEN READ THIS SECTION PLEASE:
I am a woman who lives in the real world. In the real world, things are not as perfect as we would like them to be. In the real world, gentlemen sometimes have issues that prevent them from having as much fun as they would like to have, gentlemen have issues that diminish their performances. As men age, challenges may arise. The three main challenges that I have come across are Erectile Dysfunction (E.D.) issues, Premature Ejaculation (P.E.) issues, and Prostate issues.
May I ask if you have any issues or challenges?
I have given these issues and challenges a lot of thought and a lot of research. It is easy to go to Google and type in the key words. Many articles appear, many from distinguished medical associations, journals, and organizations. The volume and the knowledge is very impressive. Of course, the medical profession and the pharmaceutical companies want you to believe that the cure is in a magic pill or potion.
I have my own ideas. I believe that sometimes the cure is in a woman's loving touch!
ISSUE 1: ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION:
I know the leading causes of erectile dysfunction: diabetes, hypertension, atherosclerosis, emotional issues, stress, anxiety, depression, alcohol, tobacco, prescription medications (esp. antidepressants, pain medicines, high blood pressure medicines, etc.), non-prescription drugs, fatigue, neurological or spinal-cord injuries, hypogonadism, low testosterone levels, multiple sclerosis, Parkinson’s disease, radiation therapy, stroke, surgery or problems, bladder surgery, disease, injury, “any disorder that causes injury to the nerves or impairs blood flow in the penis”, etc. I like the first two articles that pop up:
http://familydoctor.org/online/famdocen/home/men/reproductive/109.printerview.html
http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/erectiledysfunction.html
Personally, I believe that having a non-helpful spouse should be listed along with the above medically-stated causes!!
So many gentlemen with performance issues have visited me that I have decided to provide myself with a thorough understanding of the causes and the cures, so that when someone with an issue visits me I will already know what to do!!
Of course, YOU are the starting point. When you come to visit me, YOU should do a little research and perform a little thinking yourself. Try to discover possible reasons. If prescription medications are the likely cause, ask you doctor if you can delay your daily medications until AFTER you visit me that day. Do not use ANY alcohol for 49 hours BEFORE visiting me. Do not smoke until AFTER you visit me that day.
Once you arrive at my door (or I arrive at yours), I’ll take over. I know that making fun has more than one component. From my viewpoint, there are two main components: the emotional and the physical.
From a medical viewpoint, “Erection begins with sensory or mental stimulation, or both. Impulses from the neurological center and local nerves cause the muscles of the corpora cavernose to relax, allowing blood to flow in and fill the spaces. The blood creates pressure in the corpora cavernosa, making the penis expand. The tunica albuginea helps trap the blood in the corpora cavernosa, thereby sustaining [the enlargement]. When muscles in the penis contract to stop the inflow of blood and open outflow channels, [the enlargement] is reversed.”
http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/erectiledysfunction.html
I can not cure physical problems. But I can usually treat the main symptom -- the performance issue -- to the point of satisfaction!! I can do that through a combination of emotional responses combined with physical adjustments. I’ll explain what I do below.
It would be very possible for a man of 18 -- you when you were 18 perhaps -- to walk down a street, see a gorgeous woman with a beautiful face and a perfect figure -- and if asked by her to step into her house and make her wildly, passionately satisfied be able to do so within a few seconds!!! men have no problem needing emotional excitement to generate physical enlargement and performance!! But older men are a bit different. Older men often need an emotional component as well as the physical attraction -- and time!! A man can jump into the sack on a moment's notice and perform with Olympic heroics; an older man often needs emotional attraction AND more time.
Would I believe that you could walk through my door, take one look at me, get an immediate enlargement and be finished within 2 minutes? NO WAY!!
Instead, consider this scenario. We set up a time to meet at my place. You are excited; you bring chocolates and roses, maybe some scented candles to add an aromatic touch to our session! We sit and talk for a few minutes to get to know each other, but just as important you have an opportunity to take notice of my large cleavage. You sneak peeks when you think I'm not looking. You get fantasies in your mind.
We sit on the sofa and we do what you probably did as a man, you can grope a little, fondle, explore. That is a key to success that will follow later!
When the time is right, you lie down on your back. I'll give you about an hour and a half of tender, loving body rubs. Then I'll take notice of the last frontier!! Perhaps a quarter hour or a hour of paying attention there!! But not with direct touches – but rather, with touches nearby that are near-misses.
With this much emotional and physical stimulation, he should rise to life. If the emotional and physical stimulation don't cause him to rise to life, then several different tactics must be employed. We'll have to elevate our efforts to the next level(s). A bit like fighting a battle!! One level may be stimulation of the part inside the male body, the one that causes such troubles for gentlemen, the one most likely to develop cancer. Just look at the drawing in the article cited above and you’ll know which part I mean. More levels may be needed. But I'll save the details of those until later.
My view is rather simple: view this as a major conquest, just as you did when you were a man. You have seduced women before.You had the right stuff. The key now is to act like the man you once were -- go back and have that romance, that seduction, that conquest. the way you made love as a man.
Do not visit me if you are in a hurry. That will never work for you. It does not work for other men who have gained a few years. IT DOES NOT WORK FOR ME EITHER!
Time is one key ingredient. An emotional attraction is a second key ingredient. A physical attraction is a third key ingredient. And sensory stimulation -- gentle lighting by candlelight; soft romantic music; good food; pleasant fragrances on me and in the room; soft, delicate touches of soft skin on skin -- is a fourth key ingredient. I provide all of those!
I would suggest that we make a long afternoon or evening of our time together. If you are having a challenge, let’s beat it. Let’s give the absolute best attempt possible! In my view, I’m thinking about 2 hours. You are old enough to remember when you spent that many hours on a major conquest as a man! In the old days, the recipe was similar: take a lady to a nice dinner, then a movie (perhaps a double feature!], then walk her home [and hope for an invitation inside].
E.D. is a tough disease. When you visit a gal, visit one who is prepared to give you a long, long session of about 2 hours, filled with the anticipation, the romance, the passion of young lovers. That is the only effective treatment!!!
I think the meds slow down your chances of success, so I suggest not taking them if it will not cause a life-threatening situation. No man is ever bored with himself -- it cannot happen. Therefore, the cause of your problems is definitely physical in nature. For that, the Cialis may help, so yes, I would suggest that. But really the most important consideration is time -- a long, gentle teasing of the entire body.
Why is time the cure for E.D.? I have this theory. An erection is caused by a strong flow of blood into the penis. Basically, the brain tells the right valves to open and tells the heart to pump blood into the penis. It is much like making a water balloon -- fill the expandable object with liquid and the object expands and thus becomes bigger.
When the heart cannot pump blood into the penis, the penis cannot enlarge. Time solves this problem by allowing the heart to pump blood into the penis at a slow rate. Whether you fill a water balloon with a pre-determined amount of water in 10 seconds or in 10 minutes has no relationship to the ultimate success of the filling process. Once you have pumped that pre-determined amount of water into the balloon, the balloon is inflated to the desired size. The same is true of filling the penis -- if the heart is not capable of filling the penis in 1 minute, yet the heart may be capable of filling the penis in 1 hour.
I have been doing this a short while. I just don't think there is a penis in the world that cannot perform if given enough time. Yes, for some men 1 minute is plenty of time. For others, it may take 2 hours. Time is the sole key to success.
Obviously, every man's heart works! If not, the man would die instantly. So of course the heart is strong enough to do the job! But some hearts are definitely weak, and need more time to get the job done. If you have ever pumped water out of a boat or pumped anything anywhere you'll know that some pumps are more efficient than others. But even the weakest pump can get the entire job done if given enough time.
The other consideration is the physical stimulation of every cutaneous cell on the body!! The scratching session is designed to stimulate the middle layer of skin. The gentle fingertip session is designed to stimulate the outer layer of skin. (The therapeutic session is designed to relax the muscles of the body.) This extreme stimulation also seems to add to the success rate! Simply put, the human body reacts well to this pleasurable physical stimulation!!!!
Well, that's my personal theory based on a lifetime of stimulating penises. I have personally probably stimulated more penises than all the penis researchers of the world!! I am at ground zero of penis research. I am where the road meets the rubber, so to speak. I live it. I consider myself more of a leading authority on the subject of penises than the top penis doctors of the world!!!
Medical professionals have their theories too. Here is a link to an advertisement that has some basic language about E.D.:
http://www.trimixinjection.com/info_erectile_dysfunction_trimix.html
Here is some language from that advertisement that serves as a good introduction to what I have to say:
"What is Erectile Dysfunction?
"Erectile dysfunction (ED) is the repeated inability to achieve or maintain an erection sufficient for satisfactory sexual performance. It occurs in 15 to 30 million men in the United States. Incidence of ED increases with age but can be successfully treated.
"How does an Erection Occur?
"The process of an erection is complex and intricate. The sequence of an erection starts with a stimulus, either physical or mental, that is received in the brain. The brain sends a signal through the nerves to the penis causing relaxation of the penile blood vessels. Relaxation of the blood vessels allows blood to flow into the penis. There is high pressure in the penis that traps the blood in the corpora carvenosum causing a sustained erection. The corporus carvenosum is two parallel columns of erectile tissue that forms the body of the penis.
"What Causes ED?
"ED can be caused by many different factors. Problems are classified as psychological, physical or both. Psychological problems result in 10-20% of all cases. They include stress, anxiety, guilt, depression, low self-esteem and indifference. These patients often fail to respond to psychogenic stimuli. Physical problems account for the majority of cases. Any condition that results in the breakdown of the sequence of events that causes an erection can lead to ED. The most common diseases that cause ED are listed and include diabetes, kidney disease, neurological disease, vascular disease, and malignancies.
-Peripheral vascular disease, arthrosclerosis (hardening of the arteries), and hypertension (high blood pressure) compromises blood flow to penis.
-Spinal cord injury or stroke impairs nerve conduction to the brain
-Diabetes impairs peripheral nerve conduction to the penis
"ED can also be caused by medications and is known as medication induced ED. There are over 200 possible medications that can alter the ability to have an erection. Possible medications include those listed in the table below. Please consult your physician prior to discontinuing any medication listed. [List Omitted by me]
"Diagnosis of ED
"A doctor will do a thorough examination that will include the following: medical/ sexual history, medication history, surgical history, physical exam, blood work, and an international index of ED questionnaire that will assess quality of erectile function and sexual intercourse.”
MY FINAL TAKE:
Well, I like that basic introduction to the topic of E.D. I do not use the international index of ED questionnaire to assess the quality of erectile function. I use a more simplified analysis.
I think there is an easier way to determine whether the problem is a physical problem or an emotional problem. I have my own questionnaire. I would like to start by asking some questions. First, when you pleasure yourself, do you have this issue? If you can masturbate yourself successfully and not have the issue that you have when you are with your wife, then the problem is emotional -- your wife just doesn't thrill you anymore after some 25,000 episodes (more or less) of identical love-making. But if you do have this issue when you are by yourself, then the problem is physical.
If the issue is purely emotional, then I am indeed a good solution to your problem! For that matter, a gorgeous young woman who is willing to take the time and energy to treat you as a wonderful sex object would be a good solution. Emotional issues are rather easily solved. If the issue is purely physical, then I am a partial solution. You might visit me and have a great time, once, twice, even several times. But that's just because of pure physical attraction. Eventually, you'll need to treat the underlying issues.
For emotional problems, I am a complete cure. And a fun cure at that!
Do you know of any physical problems that might be causing E.D.? Do you have any heart problems? Do you have any diseases that might cause E.D., like diabetes, Parkinson’s, Prostate, Alzheimer’s, or others? Do you take any prescription medications? Have you tried any drug treatments for E.D. such as Viagra, Cialis, etc.?
For physical problems, I am a fun treatment, not a true cure! In even the most challenging and daunting of circumstances, I successfully meet our third goal of having a male orgasm in nearly 100% of my clients (patients!).
I have faced similar challenges in the past. I understand the nature of the challenge and I think I have developed a comprehensive battle plan. I am a fully ready, willing and able partner!
When you are ready to tackle this challenge with me, write to me to tell me when a good day would be or call me. Because our time together is likely to extend for a long period, you should call me a few days in advance. This is going to consume a large chunk of my day and also a large chunk of your day. Clear your calendar and I'll clear mine!
Hopefully, I will soon chalk up another notch on my E.D. belt!!! See you soon!
ISSUE 2: PREMATURE EJACULATION:
This is what the Mayo Clinic website has to say about Premature Ejaculation [Quotes from this site: http://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/premature-ejaculation/basics/definition/con-20031160]:
“Premature ejaculation occurs when a man ejaculates sooner during sexual intercourse than he or his partner would like.
"Premature ejaculation is a common sexual complaint. Estimates vary, but as many as 1 out of 3 men say they experience this problem at some time. As long as it happens infrequently, it's not cause for concern.
“However, you may meet the diagnostic criteria for premature ejaculation if you:
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Always or nearly always ejaculate within one minute of penetration
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Are unable to delay ejaculation during intercourse all or nearly all of the time
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Feel distressed and frustrated, and tend to avoid sexual intimacy as a result
“Both psychological and biological factors can play a role in premature ejaculation. Although many men feel embarrassed to talk about it, premature ejaculation is a common and treatable condition. Medications, counseling and sexual techniques that delay ejaculation — or a combination of these — can help improve sex for you and your partner.
“The primary symptom of premature ejaculation is the inability to delay ejaculation for more than one minute after penetration. However, the problem may occur in all sexual situations, even during masturbation.
“Premature ejaculation can be classified as lifelong (primary) or acquired (secondary). Lifelong premature ejaculation occurs all or nearly all of the time beginning with your first sexual encounters. Acquired premature ejaculation has the same symptoms but develops after you've had previous sexual experiences without ejaculatory problems.
“Many men feel that they have symptoms of premature ejaculation, but the symptoms do not meet the diagnostic criteria for premature ejaculation. Instead these may have natural variable premature ejaculation, which is characterized by periods of rapid ejaculation as well as periods of normal ejaculation.
“The exact cause of premature ejaculation isn't known. While it was once thought to be only psychological, doctors now know premature ejaculation is more complicated and involves a complex interaction of psychological and biological factors.
“Psychological causes
“Some doctors believe that early sexual experiences may establish a pattern that can be difficult to change later in life, such as:
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Situations in which you may have hurried to reach climax in order to avoid being discovered
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Guilty feelings that increase your tendency to rush through sexual encounters
“Other factors that can play a role in causing premature ejaculation include:
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Erectile dysfunction. Men who are anxious about obtaining or maintaining an erection during sexual intercourse may form a pattern of rushing to ejaculate, which can be difficult to change.
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Anxiety. Many men with premature ejaculation also have problems with anxiety — either specifically about sexual performance or related to other issues.
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Relationship problems. If you have had satisfying sexual relationships with other partners in which premature ejaculation happened infrequently or not at all, it's possible that interpersonal issues between you and your current partner are contributing to the problem.
“Biological causes
“A number of biological factors may contribute to premature ejaculation, including:
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Abnormal hormone levels
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Abnormal levels of brain chemicals called neurotransmitters
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Abnormal reflex activity of the ejaculatory system
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Certain thyroid problems
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Inflammation and infection of the prostate or urethra
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Inherited traits
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Nerve damage from surgery or trauma (rare)
“Risk factors
“Various factors can increase your risk of premature ejaculation, including:
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Erectile dysfunction. You may be at increased risk of premature ejaculation if you occasionally or consistently have trouble getting or maintaining an erection. Fear of losing your erection may cause you to consciously or unconsciously hurry through sexual encounters.
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Health problems. If you have a serious or chronic medical condition, such as heart disease, you may feel anxious during sex and may unknowingly rush to ejaculate.
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Stress. Emotional or mental strain in any area of your life can play a role in premature ejaculation, often limiting your ability to relax and focus during sexual encounters.”
As with Erectile Dysfunction, I am a big believer in taking my time to help overcome Premature Ejaculation issues. Sometimes I think a good strategy is to have a very, very immediate Happy Ending upon arrival, then having our session after that, and leading to a second Ending later, at the usual time. Let me know your thoughts.
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